I was watching the West Virginia/Duke game in the Final Four basketball tournament when WV star Da’Sean Butler collided with Duke’s center, and collapsed on the court, writhing in pain from a knee injury. His coach, Bob Huggins, knelt down and cradled his head on the court, consoling him. You don’t see coaches do this very often. Later, Butler recounted how often his coach told him “I love you.” Millions of people witnessed this intimate moment of lovingkindness: